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Program Basics

Not a Nanny. A Family Member.

The Au Pair program is a government-regulated cultural exchange. It balances three core pillars to ensure mutual benefit for families and young travelers.

Childcare & Connection

Aupairs provide up to 45 hours/week of childcare. Unlike nannies, they live with you, sharing meals and are part of your family.

  • Flexible schedule
  • Morning & after-school help
  • Family time
Core Value

Cultural Exchange

Aupairs learn your language and customs, while your children gain a global sibling and exposure to a new culture.

  • Language immersion
  • New cuisines & traditions
  • Global perspective

Mutual Benefit

Families get affordable, reliable care. Aupairs get room, board, and pocket money.

  • Weekly Stipend (Pocket Money)
  • Education contribution
  • Private Room & Board

Destination Atlas

Rules vary by country. Explore the specific requirements, salaries, and hours for top au pair destinations.

🇩🇪 Germany

Visa: Au Pair Visa
Stipend / Pocket Money
€280 - €400/month
Working Hours
Up to 30 hours/week

Overview

Germany is a country full of variety in the middle of Europe. A place where every region feels like a different world, and every season brings something unique. From lively cities like Berlin, Munich, and Hamburg to peaceful countryside villages, fai... Learn more →

Requirements

  • Aged between 18 and 26 years old.
  • Basic knowledge of the German language (at least A1).
  • Unmarried and without children.
  • Able to afford the trip to Germany.
  • Willing to work as an au pair in Germany for a minimum of 6 months and a maximum of 12 months.

Benefits

  • High quality of life
  • Personal growth and independence
  • Lifelong friendships
  • International experience
  • Career development

Please verify all information yourself as visa rules, requirements, and regulations may have changed. This is a general guide only.

Myth vs. Reality

The Au Pair program is often misunderstood. Click a card to reveal the truth.

Myth

"Au pairs are just cheap nannies"

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Reality

Au pairs are cultural exchange participants, not employees. They live with your family, share meals, and become part of your household while providing childcare.

Myth

"It's too expensive for families"

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Reality

Au pair programs are often more affordable than daycare or nanny services. You provide room, board, and weekly pocket money—typically less than traditional childcare costs.

Myth

"Only wealthy families can host"

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Reality

Families from various economic backgrounds host au pairs. The program is designed to be accessible, with costs often comparable to or less than other childcare options.

Myth

"Au pairs work 24/7"

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Reality

Au pairs have regulated working hours (typically 30-45 hours/week) and are entitled to free time, weekends off, and vacation days. They're part of the family, not on-call employees.

Myth

"You need to speak their language"

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Reality

Language learning is part of the cultural exchange! Many au pairs come specifically to improve their language skills, and families often enjoy teaching their native language.

Myth

"It's only for young woman"

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Reality

While au pairs are mostly women, the program benefits families of all types—single parents, working couples, families with multiple children, and those seeking cultural enrichment. But there is a growing number of male au pairs as well.

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